But men enjoy anal a hell lot because it is tighter and the butt is generally hot and arousing. It is a hit or miss for a lot of women because it hurts and it is dry. Straight men find this incredibly hot because women in both porn and in real life-are quite iffy about anal sex. This is how they achieve penetration if not done through blowjobs or handjobs. Curious GuysĪnother thing about straight guy porn is that gays tend to have lots of anal sex. It is hot because the straight guy is not a hundred percent sure with what he is doing-if this is right or wrong-but eventually succumbs to the euphoria anyway. It is as if you were that hot and desirable. This is how straight guy porn thrives, the feeling of making a straight guy curve for you is just purely rewarding. Of course, this is only in the initial part because the straight men are still shy and innocent to such an act-once he gets the grasp of it, the straight man may feel manly again and get a hold of the situation. But in gay sex, the gay man despite being the bottom-can quite kind of lead and guide the sex. There is a heavy pressure put on their backs to give good performance in bed that it sometimes becomes all about just impressing the woman and not actually having fun. With women, the straight man would have to be the one to lead and guide. He makes him calm and sure he will have a good time, even better than when he is doing it with women. This is where the gay dude comes and leads him, carefully as to not scare him off. Meaning, initially he does not like what is happening, because it is new and raw and foreign to his feeling. In a lot of straight guy porn, the plot is usually about a heterosexual man who is naive and ignorant about gay sex. Straight guy porn often refers to sex videos of two men with one being evidently gay-as shown by mannerisms and actions, and the other as straight and manly, obviously. Especially gay viewers who jack off to this kind of porn, the idea of being wanted and preferred to girls by straight men is just extremely arousing. For some reason, the idea of a straight man being attracted to a gay man is sort of hot-it just fuels one's confidence and esteem. You're both going to want serious showers afterward before anyone's butts or genitals touch the sheets.Gay men are always stereotyped as liking men who are straight.
You'll get sucked in if you stare too long.Ĩ. I'm not going to elaborate much further here, but it's like peering into a black hole.
If you think this would be the case for you, just take a hard pass.ħ. There is nothing worse than one person gritting their teeth through something that's supposed to fun and exciting, that's really just awkward and uncomfortable. That curiosity can lead to an undue sense of pressure to try anal sex, even if it's something you're both not into. All of the bizarre mystique surrounding anal sex makes it something guys have built up in their imaginations, creating a sense of curiosity that doesn't always apply to other sex things. If you’re doing this as a “special treat” for him, it's really the wrong reason to do something. Too many people try it for the wrong reasons. You might love risotto, but sometimes it's just way too much effort.Ħ. It’s like having the choice between eating a Gogurt from the fridge or making risotto from scratch. Anal requires a lot of warming up and preparation. With vaginal sex, it’s relatively easy to get right down to business if the mood strikes. But if he digs the kind of sensation that comes from quicker thrusts, or if he's just in the mood for rough, passionate sex, this is a serious exercise in patience.ģ. Which is fine it comes with the territory. Therefore, it's much more likely he’s going to have to go slow and take his time. The scientific nature of the butt is that it doesn't get naturally lubricated the way other, equally mysterious parts of the human anatomy do. Knowing that this is probably going to be very tender love-making. And more than likely he'll also have to shampoo his pubes a few times. The truth is, he’s probably going to need a really good scrub-down afterward. But as the saying goes, “Bears don’t stick their paw in a beehive and expect it not to get sticky.” Rationally, guys know they're not going to pull out and discover their penis is some sort of chocolate-covered banana, but in reality, there's obviously the chance of some. The fear of getting poop all over their weiner. And then there are those men who know that anal comes with its own set of unique “problems.”ġ. For some, it’s highly sought after and unattainable. For many men, anal sex brings mixed emotions.